I have had the great privilege of growing-up close to all 4 of my grandparents. They lived within 15-20 minutes of me in the neighboring towns of Williamstown and St. Mary’s. I didn’t just casually know them. We were tight. They attended nearly all of my school activities, watched me graduate from medical school, and they were there when I got married and started a family. They were amazing people and a very big part of my life. I say “were” because they now have all passed on. I miss them a lot.
Seeing them again is something I really look forward to. Hearing them call me “Robbie.” Asking about Dana and their great grandkids and my medical practice and career, and how I ever got into a bourbon venture. Sharing a meal with them that will undoubtedly include our favorites of chocolate chip pancakes, homemade noodles and bread ‘n butter, and berry pies and sugar cookies (what can I say, we liked carbs!). Fishing with my grandfathers, teaching them fly techniques I learned since we last fished together. Receiving hugs and kisses and zerberts from my grandmothers. It’ll be amazing.
At my Grandma Wilson’s funeral, the pastor said something that I have reflected on often since then. He noted that my grandmother (like my other grandparents) didn’t have worldly power or fame or wealth, but that didn’t stop her from having a large impact and influence on other people. They all displayed a kindness, commitment and love towards others that not only demonstrated their faith, but routinely affected others in a positive way. When I think about them, I am humbled, honored, inspired, and thankful. They taught me many things, including how to give zerberts and trout fish and make perfect chocolate chip pancakes, but their lasting legacy is their love and faith.
Psalm 116:15 was a verse I recently found one morning while reading, and it made me smile. “Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his faithful saints.” God cares deeply when we die, but it’s precious at the same time because we then return to Him. It’s why we celebrate Christmas! Jesus was born, lived, died and rose back to eternal life so that we can join Him in Heaven. I take comfort knowing they are all doing amazing in Heaven. Their beautiful smiles are restored and again glowing, eternally. I know one day I will see them again. And what a day of joy that will be!
Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and life. Whoever believes in me will live, even after dying.” John 11:25 (NLT).
